What stories to tell
One day at lunch, a group of us got into a debate. What was more fun — going out at night as a kid or as an adult? I was pro kid. My evidence, a story from high school. Friday night, water bombs, a bus, and a chase. That night so much fun I relived it while telling it. I couldn't say half my sentences without bursting out laughing. It was contagious. This was one of the best lunches I've ever had and felt closer to that group ever since.
We are shaped by our experiences. When you share one, you give a glimpse into who are you and how you came to be that way. Naturally revealing parts of your personality instead of bluntly stating facts. What goes on in your head becomes less of a mystery. Making it easier for people to understand you and feel comfortable around you.
The best stories are often the ones we try to hide. Stories where we made a mistake, felt stupid, scared, or embarrassed. Everyone has these experiences. We bury them because they reveal flaws and revealing flaws might make people think less of us. When you share these stories, you signal trust. That puts the people around you at ease and starts earning their trust. It creates a safe space for them to tell their stories. A space to connect.
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